When you, as a real estate investor sells to a sociopath, this is what all the investor teaching gurus don’t tell you.
Not every “vanilla” real estate deal comes out “sweet”.
Five yrs. ago I sold my mobile home on an installment contract to a man named Timothy M Larkin. Due to the mobile needing some work, I sold it “as-is” at a discounted price. Mr. Larkin had just split with his family and wanted to stay close enough to spend a lot of time with his daughter, but could not get financing due to an IRS lien. His lawyer wrote me a letter stating that the lien would be cleared up with in the next year, and other than that Timothy M Larkin had a pretty good credit report.
I thought this would be a “win-win” for both of us. I agreed to carry the paper with 10% down at the current market rate, amortized over 30 yrs. due in 5. This kept the payments affordable for Mr. Larkin and would provide a monthly paycheck for me. That’s one of the things the real estate gurus preach. “Buy a bunch of houses with a positive cash-flow and build your wealth.”
At one point about a year and a half into the contract, he paid me $35000.00 of what was owing, and I gave him credit for over $47000.00. Once again, a win-win. Supposedly during this time he had also remodeled.
In the meantime, he harassed the lady across the street from him so much, he finally got her removed from the park. She was a little crazy, but not dealing drugs as he had claimed every time he called the police out there. He had also encroached on the next door neighbors lot so much that she couldn’t even use her driveway. She put her mobile up for sale. The people directly across from him who had had that mobile for years, he harassed them so bad about painting the outside of the mobile, they painted, and then put up a for sale sign in their window. He demanded the owner of the park remove another mobile across from him, and when the owner had it all set up to move it, Mr. Larkin declared it was a health hazard, and stopped the whole thing! Through all of these things I should have gotten a clue as to what type of person Timothy M Larkin was, but nothing prepared me for what came next.
First he had a lawyer write me a letter trying to claim fraud when I sold him the mobile home and I should give Mr. Larkin the mobile home and all of his money back. Luckily I am a very good Realtor, trained by two ladies that dotted every “i” and crossed every “t”, so needless to say that letter didn’t lead to anything. I had offered to sell him his note for a discounted price, and instead of negotiating, he just quit paying. I had to file a Notice of Default to get the back payments. After that it was as if I had to file a NOD to get almost every payment.
The park is now in flux. The owner wants to convert the mobile home park to condos. He’s been fighting for a while now, but has lost each fight as the park fills the City’s need for low income and senior housing. If you live in the park full time, it is rent controlled and the space rent is quite low.
The contract was going to be up this Feb. 2011. I really thought that he would renegotiate for longer time or try to buy out the contract at a discount. Instead, with a balance of over $88000.00 owing, all he offered was $10,000.00 and instead chose to go through the foreclosure sale. I haven’t been able to get inside yet, but he’s out and I did get some pictures from the outside. Timothy M Larkin chose to totally gut the place of everything that was in it leaving me with the shell. While I half expected as such, my boyfriend when he saw it was just devastated. He just kept saying “How could somebody with any kind of conscience do something like this? This man’s an animal!”
This is what happens when you as a real estate investor meets a sociopath. This doesn’t even touch on all of the time taken to do paperwork, etc. because he had no integrity and didn’t keep his end of the bargain.
Disclaimer: I don’t for a fact know that Mr. Larkin has ever been diagnosed as a sociopath. I only know he appears to have no conscience for his actions toward other people.








